Wedding Day Schedule

Here's the plan for our day at Mildenstein Castle. All times are local.

1. 13:00 (1:00 pm)

   Wedding ceremony

   In the Fürstenstube, lasting approximately 30–45 minutes.

2. 13:45 (1:45 pm)

   Sparkling wine reception (Sektempfang)

3. Afterwards

   Coffee & cake

   In the Rittersaal (Knight's Hall), following the sparkling wine reception.

4. 16:00 (4:00 pm)

   Guided castle tours

   Tours are available in both English and German.

5. 18:00 (6:00 pm)

   Dinner

Schedule update: The planned cannon salute (Salutschuss) has unfortunately been cancelled because the person responsible is ill.

Throughout the day, feel free to explore the castle and museum before and after the ceremony. We have the venue until 02:00 (2:00 am), and all guests must leave by then.

Shuttles to Leipzig

Shuttles will take guests from the castle to Leipzig Hauptbahnhof (main train station). We expect departures roughly every two hours, starting around 20:00 (8:00 pm). Exact departure times are still to be confirmed.

Please let us know if you need a shuttle, especially if you plan to stay late, using the email address in your invitation.

Location

The wedding will take place at Mildenstein Castle in Leisnig, Germany. The castle has sat on a rocky outcrop above the Mulde River since at least 1046. It's now a museum with well-preserved medieval rooms including the Knight's Hall (where we'll be having the reception) and chapel.

The castle has been carefully restored and is comfortable to visit while maintaining its historical character. The views of the surrounding countryside are gorgeous, and should be particularly beautiful in the fall. We'll be celebrating in spaces that have hosted gatherings for nearly a thousand years!

You will, of course, be able to visit the museum sections of the castle. Guided tours in English and German will take place at 16:00 (4:00 pm). If you'd like to take part, please let us know using the email address in your invitation.

The castle is very kid-friendly, offering a number of games and activities especially for kids. There's even a really cool jousting game that we're sure the adults will love too!

Getting There

The castle is about 2.5 hours from Berlin by car or 3 hours by train. From Leipzig, it's about 1 hour by either method. If arriving by train, note there's an uphill walk from Leisnig station to the castle (about 15 minutes), and taxis may not be readily available.

Accommodation

In Leisnig

Some class reunion seems to have booked every hotel in Leisnig for that weekend.

Out of Town

„Die Karls Bande” is our top recommendation if you'll have a car. It's a modern hotel outside a strawberry-themed amusement park. You don't need park tickets to stay there, but it's worth a visit, especially if you have kids along! It's about 20 minutes from the castle by car, costs around €120/night, and has English-speaking staff.

Döbeln is just one train stop away (12 minutes) and has several hotels for around €100/night. You might find English-speaking staff there, though it's not guaranteed.

Leipzig is a major city about an hour away by train with lots of accommodation options starting around €80/night. It's easy to find hotels with English-speaking staff there.

Berlin

We don't recommend staying in Berlin the night before or after unless you have a car - the train timing is too tight and there's too much risk of delays. That said, there will be some space at our home for immediate family in the days before and after the wedding.

Weather

We can't predict the weather, but you should be prepared for it to be cold and/or rainy. The historical average temperature in Leisnig on October 17th is between 7°-15° Celsius or 44°-59° Fahrenheit. Most of the castle (including the ceremony and reception areas) has been renovated with underfloor heating and renewed insulation, so the interior should be comfortable no matter what.

Note that you'll need to walk outside briefly to move between different areas of the castle, including between the ceremony and reception locations. We recommend bringing a jacket or coat that you can easily put on and take off, and an umbrella just in case.

What to Wear

We're asking for formal attire, i.e. dresses, ties, button-up shirts, etc. You don't need to break the bank on something expensive, but please don't show up in jeans and a t-shirt.

Given the castle setting, we'd also be delighted if anyone wants to wear medieval or Renaissance attire! This is completely optional and not expected at all, but if you have the inclination (and the costume), it would add to the atmosphere.

This is from the Easter Knight Festival in 2025 at the Spandau Citadel

If you don't bring medieval clothing but want to get some photos in period dress, the castle has some costumes available for photos. You can't wear these outside the designated photo area, but they're perfect for some fun castle pictures.

Practical note: While the interior floors are hard wood, you'll be walking on some cobblestones outside, so comfortable dress shoes are recommended. And remember to bring a jacket or coat for the cold and possible rain.

Gifts

We know many of you are traveling far and spending a lot of money just to be with us on our special day. Your presence is truly the only present we need. Please don't feel any obligation to bring or send additional gifts. We genuinely mean this!

That said, there is something we'd love that costs nothing but would mean a lot to us: your favorite recipes. We both enjoy cooking and baking, and we'd love to create our own cookbook filled with recipes from the people we love most.

Every time we make one of your dishes, we'll think of you and the memories we share. It's a gift that keeps giving, much better than anything we could put on a registry. If we can, we'll bind them together into a physical cookbook and also create a digital version to share with everyone who is interested.

Please include the stories behind your recipes! Are they family traditions? Connected to special memories or people? Perfect for certain seasons or occasions? We want to know it all, as the context makes each recipe even more meaningful.

Keep in mind that the groom is vegetarian, so recipes where meat isn't the main focus work best (though we can adapt in most cases).

If you really feel compelled to bring something physical despite our protests, let us know and we can suggest a few specific items. (Like things that aren't easily available in Germany.) But honestly, the recipes will mean so much to us.

Pre-Wedding Business

Our civil ceremony will take place on October 14th, 2026, at 13:00 (1:00 pm) at Rathaus Pankow in Berlin.

Before the celebration at the castle we'll have a civil ceremony at the Standesamt (civil registry office) in Berlin. In Germany, this legal ceremony is required to become officially married and is distinct from the celebration that we'll do at the castle. The civil ceremony is quite short and formal, conducted by a government official with just a few witnesses present. It's usually only immediate family, and it must be done in Berlin since that's where we're registered residents.

Think of it as getting our marriage license, but with a bit more ceremony than you'd have in the US. It's an interesting part of German wedding tradition where the legal and celebratory aspects are typically separated.

If you're part of the immediate family or wedding party, you're also invited to join us for this pre-wedding civil ceremony. If you need a place to stay in Berlin, you're welcome to stay with us as long as you're fine sleeping on a couch, sofa bed, or air mattress.

Visiting Germany

Before You Arrive

You may be required to get an ETIAS travel authorization to come from abroad, even as an American. You'll need to do this ahead of time, so check early to see what the requirements are. It's expected to begin in Q4 of 2026, so right in time for the wedding.

Money & Payments

Germany uses the Euro. When you get here, make sure to get some cash - lots of places don't take cards at all, especially smaller restaurants, bakeries, and some shops. Many places that do take cards prefer EC cards (German debit cards) over credit cards. ATMs are widely available, but your bank may charge fees.

Language

Many Germans speak English - they start learning it in third grade. Younger people generally speak it better. You don't need to know German to get by, but learning a few basic phrases is appreciated and polite. "Danke" (thank you), "Bitte" (please/you're welcome), and "Entschuldigung" (excuse me) go a long way.

Note that the wedding location is part of what was formerly East Germany, where people were more likely to learn Russian as a second language. People there still are less likely to know English, especially the older people. Berlin, being more international, has many more native English speakers and generally better English overall.

Public Transportation

Public transit in Germany is excellent. Download the Deutsche Bahn app for long-distance trains. If you'll be here for a while, consider buying a "Deutschland Ticket" (then immediately cancel the subscription) - it covers everything except high-speed trains (IC and ICE). In Berlin, use the BVG app for local transit.

Important train tips: Long-distance train tickets don't include seat reservations - pay extra to guarantee a seat. There are no ticket gates, but you must have a valid ticket. Inspectors perform random checks, and fines can be up to several hundred euros. You can eat and drink on long-distance trains, but not on local trains, trams, or buses. Keep noise levels down.

Food & Dining

While you're here, definitely try Döner - it's delicious German-Turkish street food (though very meat-heavy). As far as Leisnig goes, there's a good tavern right outside the castle with traditional German cuisine. German bakeries tend to have a very high floor when it comes to quality, and there are several in Leisnig near the castle. We can also recommend places in Berlin based on your preferences, but don't expect great Mexican food.

Tipping is typically 5-10% at sit-down places and you usually round up or tell the server the total you want to pay after they've given you the pre-tip total. If paying by card, they'll bring a card reader to you rather than taking your card away. But make sure you have cash for restaurants as they might not take card!

Cultural Notes

Germans are quite socially-minded. It's important to follow the rules and to not bother others. In particular, keep your volume low in public, especially on public transit.

Shops are generally closed on Sundays except for restaurants, some tourist areas like museums, and train stations. Quiet hours ("Ruhezeit") are typically 10pm-6am and Sunday afternoons - be extra careful to keep noise down during these times.

Extending Your Trip

If you're traveling far for the wedding, consider staying longer to explore (and justify the plane ticket)!

The wedding is in October, and it's in Germany, so you might be interested in attending Oktoberfest. Despite the name, it actually starts in September and ends in early October. In 2026 it's expected to run from September 19th through October 4th, so if you want to attend you'll need to arrive quite a bit before the wedding. The main event is in Munich, and while you will find smaller festivities elsewhere, it really is mostly a Munich thing.

For Munich Oktoberfest: You'll definitely need reservations at beer tents, especially on weekends. Book through the official Oktoberfest website or individual tent websites starting in late spring. Without reservations, you can sometimes get in on weekday mornings, but it's risky. Expect to pay premiums for beer and food, double what you might pay elsewhere or at different times. It's crowded, loud, and touristy, but might be fun if that's your thing.

If you're more interested in October festivals closer to the wedding location, Saxony has several wine and harvest festivals throughout October. Dresden (about 1.5 hours from Leisnig) often has autumn markets and cultural events. The region also celebrates various local harvest festivals that are much more authentic and less touristy than Munich's Oktoberfest. Karls Erlebnisdorf, the amusement park whose hotel I recommended, also will have some fall theming around that time.

For travel to other European countries, check entry requirements and currencies (not everyone uses the Euro - Poland uses Zloty, for example). Sleeper trains between countries are comfortable and environmentally friendly, though slower than flying.